I hope you find the site helpful - it's packed with tips and advice - and more to come. Keep happy, keep hopeful, Dr Pam x p.s My 'loves' include: anything made of chocolate (I'm a complete chocoholic) music, films, good TV drama, great books like anything by John Irving, William Boyd, Robert Harris, and Lionel Shriver travel including places like Peru, Cuba, Cambodia, Thailand, the Galapagos Islands and India films of all genres lots of other stuff like going to galleries, the theatre action sports like water skiing, skiing, paragliding, hiking and I've been a black belt in Shotokan Karate for years but haven't been able to train for a few years due to a major ski accident - though I stll ski every year.

In my Sun newspaper online column today I've got some tips for you to check out depending on the decade you're in.

As one survey finds that 33 year olds have the best sex, it doesn't have to be that way if you know what to look out for in your decade.

For two years I had a weekly agony slot on Tom Dunne's show on Dublin Newstalk radio as well as a weekly dream analysis slot on George Lamb's previous BBC 6 Music shows.

I've previously worked as a psychologist getting my doctorate in psychology from a London teaching hospital where I researched how to help parents whose children had emotional and/or behavioural problems.

In my latest Sun column I outline seven things you should never ever say about your ex, unless you want to cause problems with you new partner!

Some of these might seem obvious but it's incredible how many people tell me these things accidentally slipped out.

What with two thirds of people saying they wished their partner's had better bedroom skills there are lots of unsatisfied people around.

In my latest Sun newspaper online column I've got seven steps to make it easy for you to With Jeremy Paxman going off with a much younger woman, in today's Daily Mirror I have a spread on affairs including a quiz about your level of risk, the main types of love cheats, some of the signs indicating cheating, and more.

I have worked with a number of charities and presently am a patron of Kids in the Middle that advises parents who are breaking up on how to help their children during this difficult time.