Whether or not you fully buy into this concept, it's a handy notion: with no ego to be rejected, insulted or hurt, you're much more likely to have an open heart and take risks in love.You're also more likely to be kind, compassionate, and fun to be around.

Save yourself all of that grief and get ready for your next adventure.

You meet a great guy..drop your entire former life to be with him.

The mindset you choose bears directly upon the success of your love life (and your success in general). "all the good ones are taken" - begets neediness, and neediness is not attractive.

Big-heartedness and self-sufficiency, on the other hand, work much better. 'Enlightened' means that you make decisions by considering the long-term consequences of your actions. "I know he's a bad boy, but it'll be so much welfare takes priority, just like in the pre-flight announcement where they say put on your own oxygen mask first, then help others in the case of an emergency. We see this in nature: water runs from high to low; electricity flows between cathode and anode; magnetic force goes between north and south poles. Without polarity, relationships fall flat, whether in heterosexual or same-sex couples: has to wear the pants.

She wants to experience and enjoy sexual tension based on how the guy is behaving and managing the dynamic in the interaction between them.

It’s exciting for her and it makes her want to kiss and have sex to release all the built up sexual tension.

You go out several times and then don't hear from him?

Instead of worrying and stressing over why - just assume it wasn't meant to be and move on.

I understand that some women play hard to get when you’re escalating to sex on a first date, but when you pull her back from a nightclub and she behaves like that, it usually means she’s a bit crazy and wouldn’t be good girlfriend material.