The point is, Mellie, you’re dealing with men who are at the top of the dating totem pole – 35-40 year old cute, successful guys in New York City. It’s not that you’re wrong for wishing that things came a little bit easier; it’s that you’re hoping for a different reality, which generally is not a good use of your time.

It’s a seller’s market and they can afford to be choosy. In reality, failure is the default setting in dating.

If you’re not happy with the results, it sounds to me like there’s more tweaking to do. My husband was one of those unusual guys who always had a lot of women writing to him on online dating sites, but that was because he never stopped testing what did and didn’t work.

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Books can be personalized and staff will take posed photos while Kelly is signing.

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I read what I purchased from you faithfully and followed everything you said.

It’s pretty much the same, but worse, because the most attractive women receive TWENTY EIGHT times more email than the least attractive women. Take a deep breath and realize that this is a process and that all you can do is make the best of it. Just because I got a personal trainer at the gym doesn’t mean I’m going to be on the cover of Men’s Health.

Just because I get guitar lessons doesn’t mean I’m going to be performing like Clapton any time soon.

I am a 36-year-old East Indian woman living in New York City. This is incredibly frustrating, especially after I checked your blog and saw that in a question you asked about response rate, ALL these women said that they got at least 50-60% response rate.