If you are used to dating dominating men, for example, a quiet, mellow man may not be someone you find attractive.

But for women over 40, the challenges are different.

After all, things have changed since they were in their 20’s, when life was more carefree and simple.

Every conversation led to how I needed to lose 20#. So, I lost 30 pounds, whitened my teeth, updated my hair style and my wardrobe, and started pampering myself. We will be sharing a front lawn, and my office window overlooks where he parks his harley. Datinggoddess, is this a cruel joke, or a chance for me to exact revenge?

I also began working on my inside: My attitude, femininity, and self-esteem. Thank God for the Grapefruit Diet and my hula hoop. I know this letter is long, but I love to write, and feel a certain “kindredness” with you.

Another thing to beware of is the people that have been on there for seven and eight and nine years, not once changing their pictures which were already ten years old when they originally put them on there, but it just makes it all the more fun to watch Hi, I just stumbled across your site! Plus I could add individual entries so that people could get to know the “real” me 😉 Match has a tonne of members but it takes ages to complete your profile. Dear Datinggoddess, I am so glad I stumbled upon your site.

Several years ago I gave up dating to take care of my mother, who passed away a year ago.

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Here’s the kicker: Last week I was told by my boss that our office is moving.